Hey peeps!
As I was doing my random cleanup for my blog I found this post lying around waiting to be entertained at the Draft tab for the past 2 months. This was one of the very serious looking post that will make you think twice - about me. *laughs*
I did write about it, albeit the lack of personal experiences, there's a little or close to non of discomfort to speak about it, after all I'm at 22 of age. Sophie assigned each girls 3 topics to speak about relationships, and apparently we can't give a one-liner.
He's not over his ex!!
First thing first, how do you know? Sometimes I would laugh over myself thinking just now complex a women can be when it comes down to this. Often than not the texts from his ex he intentionally kept (you think) for keepsake; photos of them snuggling up the couch; the Valentines card laying around in his drawer are actually, things that he couldn't be bothered to look at anymore - seriously. Of course, no doubt, a sour feeling will somehow grow in you that turns into jealousy like a bottle of bad wine that you just want to throw at him when an argument hits and you'll take that Ex-issue to your advantage.
But come on, who doesn't have a past? *coughs* lemme give you a word of wisdom.
p/s: Just in case your ever-accurate woman's instinct is correct, move on to another man girl! Loves!
He doesn't care about the dates!
Personally I think I know a handful of guys that couldn't be bothered with another passing days. Coming from a family that values dates of special occasion (birthdays, anniversaries, etc...) very much influences me on how I feel about this particular subject.
Pick any girl from the street I think we could easily find 9/10 of girls would love to celebrate special occasions with their love ones ( 1 of them is lying). Until today, I believe mums will still melt when your daddy hands over her a bouquet or bring her out on a date during her birthday or their wedding anniversary despite mum's tough tongue that wouldn't stop complaining about the expensive flowers and restaurant bill. So don't ever feel bad for wanting to celebrate!
Call me ancient, for me these are more that just the date, the numbers or the time. These are some of the little efforts that lovers and families should put into to at least remember the things that first brought them together or time of the year that you would love to spend with your significant other. However, these varies as I see different upbringing reflects different point of view - like how some families doesn't celebrate birthdays or some couples doesn't celebrate anniversaries.
So, if your man doesn't ask you out on a date don't frown over it, no point fighting over things like this and expect him to bring you out and usually it'll end up bitter because it's being forced to avoid building a well at your tear duct.
Doll up, be sexy, work that heels and go out! who knows, you might met someone who tucks at a corner who wants to celebrate that day too. *BEAMS*
Break Up
Millions of songs are written for the love-ridden, a counter of a million more songs are also written for the broken-hearted.
I did write about it, albeit the lack of personal experiences, there's a little or close to non of discomfort to speak about it, after all I'm at 22 of age. Sophie assigned each girls 3 topics to speak about relationships, and apparently we can't give a one-liner.
So here goes!
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He's not over his ex!!
First thing first, how do you know? Sometimes I would laugh over myself thinking just now complex a women can be when it comes down to this. Often than not the texts from his ex he intentionally kept (you think) for keepsake; photos of them snuggling up the couch; the Valentines card laying around in his drawer are actually, things that he couldn't be bothered to look at anymore - seriously. Of course, no doubt, a sour feeling will somehow grow in you that turns into jealousy like a bottle of bad wine that you just want to throw at him when an argument hits and you'll take that Ex-issue to your advantage.
But come on, who doesn't have a past? *coughs* lemme give you a word of wisdom.
You can't blame a man for their history, only if they never learn from it.
I always believe we have to be strong and loving towards ourselves first before we expect others to love us. But if this is The Issue that has been bothering for the longest time, why not grab his attention and speak about it - otherwise, you might be the one that needs to get over his Ex.
p/s: Just in case your ever-accurate woman's instinct is correct, move on to another man girl! Loves!
He doesn't care about the dates!
"What is the best way to remember your wife's birthday?"
"You only have to forget it once."
"You only have to forget it once."
Personally I think I know a handful of guys that couldn't be bothered with another passing days. Coming from a family that values dates of special occasion (birthdays, anniversaries, etc...) very much influences me on how I feel about this particular subject.
Pick any girl from the street I think we could easily find 9/10 of girls would love to celebrate special occasions with their love ones ( 1 of them is lying). Until today, I believe mums will still melt when your daddy hands over her a bouquet or bring her out on a date during her birthday or their wedding anniversary despite mum's tough tongue that wouldn't stop complaining about the expensive flowers and restaurant bill. So don't ever feel bad for wanting to celebrate!
Call me ancient, for me these are more that just the date, the numbers or the time. These are some of the little efforts that lovers and families should put into to at least remember the things that first brought them together or time of the year that you would love to spend with your significant other. However, these varies as I see different upbringing reflects different point of view - like how some families doesn't celebrate birthdays or some couples doesn't celebrate anniversaries.
So, if your man doesn't ask you out on a date don't frown over it, no point fighting over things like this and expect him to bring you out and usually it'll end up bitter because it's being forced to avoid building a well at your tear duct.
Doll up, be sexy, work that heels and go out! who knows, you might met someone who tucks at a corner who wants to celebrate that day too. *BEAMS*
Break Up
Millions of songs are written for the love-ridden, a counter of a million more songs are also written for the broken-hearted.
No break up should be easy. Being said, relationship should be committed enough to feel the pain during breakup. Also, there should also still be at least a little love left for each other at the point of breakup. If you don't, something is wrong. Either your partner has been verbally or physically abusive to you or you guys started at the wrong foot in the very beginning. Everything in between is still what makes a couple a couple - Occasional fights, the kiss and make up, the nauseating lovey dovey, the silent treatment, the compromise and tolerance - all and all, still deeply in love with each other. My mum once told me
"Do you know why lovers start yelling at each other? It's because their hearts are at distance, they raise their voice because they think their partner couldn't hear them even though they are just next to each other.."
You can choose the recovery path you want to take, because we're individualist we all have different way to cure our own broken heart. But along the way I'm sure you'll learn something.
In conclusion
Time + Tears = Recovery
Short Cut = A New Boyfriend
Time + Tears = Recovery
Short Cut = A New Boyfriend
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Will post up the full post from Soph's blog if permitted. There will be interesting topics such as My boyfriend hates my family/ My boyfriend has breath issues. LOL.
Will post up the full post from Soph's blog if permitted. There will be interesting topics such as My boyfriend hates my family/ My boyfriend has breath issues. LOL.
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